I just got home from an eventful week of travel. I first
headed to Santa Monica to lead a farmer’s market tour and do a tofu cooking
demo with the Gourmandise School;
I also taped a radio segment with Evan Kleinman of KCRW’s Good Food and visited with Bee Yinn Low to prepare her family's laksa noodle soup.
The night that I
arrived in Los Angeles, I got rear-ended coming home from dinner with my friend Victor Fong.
No one was hurt but ironically, right before I realized that the car
approaching me was not going to stop, Victor was saying how my 2001 Honda
Accord was in such great shape. Then I realized that the vehicle behind us was not
slowing down. I took my foot off the brake to absorb the shock of whatever that
was coming.
Anna, the young woman driving the Nissan Sentra that hit my car
fell apart crying, having had a flashback to a fatal accident involving her little
brother. She didn’t have her license with her, was driving a borrowed vehicle, didn’t
have the car insurance information, AND had just moved to Los Angeles. She
called her father in North Carolina and handed me the cell phone to talk to
him. Oye, I felt bad for her fragile state. What an LA story.
Remembering what a kind woman had told me a few weeks earlier when, in a
Whole Foods parking lot, my shopping cart rolled away and dinged her car hood,
I said to Anna, “Everything will be okay. It’s just a car.”
The next day, I went to a body shop for an estimate and to make
sure I could still safely drive the car; eventually, I had to drive back to
Santa Cruz. Figuring that I’d get an honest answer, I asked the estimator,
“What would you advise me to do if I were your sister or mother?”
He responded with these memorable takeaways:
- A car’s actual bumper is an unattractive piece
of rebar (metal). That’s what protects you. What we think of as a bumper is
just decor. Mine looked sad but not bad. - There can be hidden/unseen damage so don’t
rely on a cursory visual estimate. He refused to give me an estimate. However,
he did me the favor of looking underneath my car and saw that there was a
wrinkle in the rail/frame (a costly thing, sign of hidden damage). - When you’re far from home, check to make sure
you can drive your damaged vehicle home to get it repaired there. - At a stop, look in your rear view mirror.
The car accident has been a minor inconvenience, mostly because I
have to deal with folks in another time zone and a rattling muffler that loves
to make noise in slow traffic. But I just reminded myself that it’s just a car.
A week after the accident, I am home and the insurance process has inched
forward.
DIY Tofu @ Cooking Light Headquarters
Part of the week’s travel led me to Birmingham, Alabama, where Cooking
Light magazine headquarters are located. I’d never been to Alabama and
found it to be lovely and low-key; they like to keep it that way, I was told. The
leaves were showing their fall colors.
Executive food editor Ann Pittman invited me to demo
and teach her and the staff a few Asian cooking techniques. We came up with a
list of things to cover, including homemade tofu. I brought my favorite soybeans and
soaked them overnight in an ice bucket in my hotel room; the next day, I
drained and transported the plump beans in the plastic bag that I found in the ice bucket.
At the Cooking Light test
kitchen, I set up 4 stations and had people make soy milk and tofu from
scratch. As editor Phoebe Wu suggested, I had the group
taste plain soy milk because most of them had never unadulterated, fresh soy
milk; they assumed that it was like Silk, the stuff sold in boxes. They drank
up nearly all the medium soy milk that was made, deeming it delicious.
When people unmolded their tofu, recipe tester and developer
Robin Bashinsky marveled, “I never thought you could make tofu. I assumed it
just came in a tub!” I left a mold and some coagulant and beans for him and Phoebe to tinker with. They both said they wanted to make tofu again.
Ann posted a recap of the DIY tofu session on the magazine’s
blog. I loved that she wrote this: “From start to
finish (well, after soaking dried soybeans overnight), it only took about an
hour and a half. And it was So. Much. Fun.”
It was. We were like a bunch of kids in the
kitchen, exchanging knowledge and trying new things. Their virginal reaction to making tofu was like mine a few years back:
It seemed like such a miracle to derive a delicious food from a little bean.
Birmingham Eats, Drinks, and Museum
Cooking Light staffers were new to making tofu as much as I was new to Birmingham. They hosted me with generous southern hospitality. We had tart-sweet Alabama barbecue at Dreamland because their other favorite spot, Saw's was closed on Sundays. The unassuming John's City Diner downtown had well-prepared sandwiches and southern sides; Ann and I went there for lunch.
Birmingham's vibrant food scene is partly led by chef/restaurateur
Frank Stitt, and we went to Bottega for dinner one night. Beverage-wise, Good People makes a refreshing canned
IPA. My hotel was fortuitously across from the Red Lion Lounge, the epitome of a cheap dive bar, I was told. Indeed, it was an interesting scene. A Costco-size bottle
of Tums sat on the bar for customer’s convenience and my draft Bud Lite was $2 at
happy hour.
Birmingham played a pivotal role in the 1960s Civil Rights
Movement, and Ann accompanied me to the Civil Rights Institute. It was located
across from the historic 16th Street Baptist church that was bombed in 1963. Go
if you’re ever nearby or in Birmingham.
I flew back to Southern California on Tuesday night, and my mom
had dinner waiting. On Wednesday, I drove seven hours home. The muffler
rattling wasn’t bad on the highway. I also cranked up the stereo.
Got tips on dealing with car accidents or good eats/drinks in Alabama? Let us all know.
Bee says
Great that you had fun, other than the rear-ended part. Thanks for all your advice and the fun cooking / eating session in my house. 🙂
Andrea Nguyen says
Delighted to assist you to make asam laksa, even more so to eat it! Take care.
Stephanie says
If only I would've known that, I'm only an hour and a half away! I hope you enjoyed Alabama!
charsiew says
Really glad to hear there are people like you around who don't go hopping mad when being rear-ended. If only more people were kind and gracious enough, there wouldn't be so many angry people driving around! On another note, have you tried a Korean tofu making machine (all in one)? All you have to do is soak the beans, add water. The jug heats up the concoction and grinds it all up (in the same size as an electric kettle). You then pour out the mixture, into a sieve and add the usual salt, coagulants, etc. It's available here in Singapore.
Julia says
Ah, the Red Lion! My favorite dive bar here in Birmingham (my city). Gotta love the Elvis stuff, ooooooooooold jukebox and caricatures.
Glad to hear Birmingham treated you well!!
Andrea Nguyen says
Stephanie, I hope that my first time won't be my last time in Alabama!
Andrea Nguyen says
Charsiew, that's a soy milk machine right? I bought one in the US for about $115 and tinkered with it for a couple of weeks. I tweak my milk to make different kinds of soy milk. In the end, I got lots of burnt milk, which is kinda old fashioned (if you cook soy milk over wood) but not what I was looking for. I ended up spending more time cleaning the machine. It wasn't as convenient as I expected. 🙁
Andrea Nguyen says
Awesome that you know of the Red Lion too! It was so dark and cave-like inside. The people were very nice too. I enjoy the South whenever I visit.
Sophie - dinnersforwinners says
I'm chuckling at the Tums on the bar! Canned beer is such a great thing. I think we should skip bottles all together (for taste and economic reasons -- although I prefer the feeling/aesthetics of a bottle). So glad everyone is ok after your rear-ending! Dealing with insurance, no matter whose fault it was, is so outrageously annoying. A slow and painful process, indeed. I hope you get that cleared up soon! I learned early in my life not to settle -- and now I trust no insurance adjustor 😉
terri says
Glad to hear that you're okay, despite being rear-ended. That's the main thing.
Ivy Manning says
Birmingham seems like such an interesting place, and those folks at CL all seem so nice. Glad you had a good trip and handled the whole car thing like a travellin' pro, because you are 🙂